Live, Love and Enjoy Life. Be Yourself

17 Sep

Some days are better than others. On the days that are simply awesome we end up being over productive, happy and full of life.  On those days that go less well, we usually end up being hard on ourselves, less productive and feel life like is being hard on us. Is there anything you do to avoid the ill effects of those bad days and not let them affect you? Of course, you can!! Here are few things that you can do to keep going and continue being awesome.

1. Keep going: I find that the best way to do things is to constantly move forward and to never doubt anything and keep moving forward, if you make a mistake say you made a mistake. Admitting a mistake will not make you look as looser but Infact people will respect your courage. Also, don’t let life’s changes throw you off track, but remember that most circumstances are temporary. Sunlight has to follow darkness. Gain more clarity by staying the course and channeling your energy in a positive direction. If you have will and eagerness to survive and channel your energy in right direction during those weak moments, you will sail through your problems successfully and will be proud of yourself.

2. Trust yourself. Your perceptions are derived from your feelings and your ability to be yourself, to own and trust yourself, and to say what you feel, even when it may be diametrically opposed to everyone else’s opinion. Believe in your inner self, no matter what, and you will grow from the experience. I believe that the answers usually lie within and you are probably smart enough to figure out what you need to do. It is only with one’s heart that one can see clearly. What is essential is invisible to the eye. Give yourself a little time and have patience.

3. Be friends with life: Remember that the world is not out to get you and it does not punish you. You do that to yourself. Learning to focus on other opportunities or in another direction can give you some perspective. Life is beautiful. Live it!!!

“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.”

― Mother Teresa

4. Watch your thoughts: You become what you think. We are humans and our thinking will never be 100 percent positive. You must learn to dismiss the negative thoughts and stay open to other ideas that will help you move in a positive direction. Start recognizing negative thoughts and use your mind to control them.

5. Strength: Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.  Learn to access and direct your strengths to the highest good for all concerned. Believe that your strength can help you deal with anything. Remember that you have and will survive the worse.

6. Learn to love yourself: Self-esteem and self-love are issues that are often related together. If you suffer from low self-esteem, it is possible that the root cause is a case of insufficient self-love. When you don’t love yourself, you are basically telling the Universe that you are unworthy or undeserving of any love or positive outcomes that have the same vibrational match as love. Learning to love you starts with making a conscious decision, an intention to become happy and lead a fulfilled life. When you do not love yourself and suffer from low self-esteem, it is almost impossible to ever reach the potential that you suspect you have. Think about what makes you “YOU”. Just like a flower that needs watering to grow, learn to nurture yourself in every way.

Love yourself for all the good that you see and accept your flaws and the fact that you are imperfect. This does not mean that you do not learn to change from your shortcomings; instead, you are being gentle and kind to yourself despite all your “flaws”. Look in the mirror and fall in love with the reflection that is “You”.You do not have to be who you are today, and your life is not scripted. Changing how you feel about yourself means creating a strategy, gathering some new tools, and making yourself into the person you want to be. A good way to start is to stop doing things that hurt.

7. Desire: In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. Desire can be a powerful motivating tool, but wanting something too much can be very painful and very expensive, so do not live beyond your means or desire for the unattainable. Seek your desire, but keep your integrity. The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential… these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence.

8. Don’t get insulted: It is wise to be unemotional about critical comments. Human’s will always bump heads, but consider the source, and if it’s the other person’s issue, ignore it. Learn to respond instead of react, and don’t show your anger.

9. Recognize that disappointment is part of life: Even the most successful people have to deal with disappointment, but they have learned how to use it to get to the next level of life. Process your feelings, and then take some kind of action.

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.”- Martin Luther King, Jr.

10. Deal with your fears: Fear is a message. Do not dismiss it outright! Neither let fear dismiss judgment. Weigh all evidence in the balance, then act. If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but because of your estimate of it; and you have the power to revoke at any moment. Overcoming fear makes you stronger, and being a little scared can make you better.

11. Anger: Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy. Anger kills the man who angers, for each rage leaves him less than he had been before – it takes something from him. Do not lose your focus of who you are and what you want to be and get blinded by anger.

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